The porcupine, whom we must handle gloved, may be respected, but is never loved.
Think about how you treat folks and how you are treated. Now answer the question: Who has to wear to gloves? You or others?
(Eph. 4:31-32) “Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamor, and railing, be put away from you, with all malice: and be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, even as God also in Christ forgave you.”